7 Relationship Tips That Are Actually Terrible Advice

They should accept your “dark side” 

Many people think that their partner should love them for who they are, even though their behavior can be “dark” sometimes. But instead of waiting for someone to love your personality imperfections, you better focus on fixing the problem and becoming a better person. 

“This is the motto of every person you have ever met that draws drama to them like a magnet, but can’t for the life of them figure out why,” Anderson says. “Instead of trying to rationalize your bad behavior, spend that time actually improving yourself and your life to the point where your worst is worth dealing with.”