7 Relationship Tips That Are Actually Terrible Advice

Find someone who loves your passions

We are all different, so you should fall in love with someone who has their own hobbies and try to appreciate their own personality traits. In fact, you should choose your partner for what they really are, not for what you want them to be. 

“Someone who needs to feel connected to another human being in order to survive will adapt their likes and dislikes to you,” says Megan Hunter, co-founder of the High Conflict Institute in California and Arizona.

If you’ve “suddenly found a partner who also loves horses, worships your favorite sports team, has the same type of friends, and loves the same movies,” then you have to pay attention to their behavior, because there is a possibility that they tell you this just to make you like them more.