11 Clear Signs You Are a Pessimist

You think that people are not attracted to you

If you do not believe the people who tell you that you are attractive, you might be very pessimistic. Did you know that the way you see yourself influences the way other people see you? So, if you constantly complain about your body and expose your defects in front of others then you will draw the attention to them.

“When we believe the negative stories we tell ourselves, we set ourselves up for self-fulfilling prophecies,” explains New York-based therapist Alison Bulman, MSW. “Similarly, if you’re certain someone won’t be interested can be like wearing doom and gloom glasses that actually make people appear less attractive.”