The truth is that people always make mistakes, whether they are made voluntarily or in a subconscious level and other individuals have the right to interpret them as they want. For instance, you can do something than can upset someone else, but you still believe that you did nothing wrong.

The truth is that you are not Nostradamus to know exactly what makes other people sad, angry or frustrated, but you can do your best to become a better person in society.

We have to admit that we all make mistakes, but it is important to fix them or correct our behavior because, in fact, it represents us. It is never too early or too late to learn how to become a better person and it is your duty to be the best version of yourself every day.

You can start the process of change for yourself, not to impress other people – just be honest with yourself and you will significantly improve the quality of life. 

So, here is a helpful list of some of the best ways to become a better person in 2020!

Try to compliment yourself and others

There are a lot of people who do not know how important it is to receive a compliment and if others do not tell you such things, it is time to do it yourself, but do not forget to compliment others as well. So, personal development specialists recommend that every morning you give yourself a compliment because it could contribute to the improvement of your mood throughout the day. 

Also, one of the most important things to maintain healthy relationships with your friends and family is to compliment often their outfit, haircut or their actions. We promise you that they will be happier after this. 

Forgiveness is the key to become a better person

We all get upset sometimes, but it is better for us if we forgive people and move on. It is important not to keep the negativity in you, because you will only attract negativity back to you.

According to Joyce Marter, LCPC, “If for no other reason than for yourself, forgive to untether yourself from the negative experiences of the past. Take time to meditate, and give thanks for the wisdom and knowledge gained from your suffering. Practice the mantra, ‘I forgive you and I release you.’”

Do not make excuses

People usually blame others for their troubles and this is not fair, because your wife or husband, boss, co-workers or children are not responsible for your sadness or that you are not yet financially successful. You have to solve any issues by yourself, to learn from them and stop making excuses.

When you are able to take responsibility for your own mistakes you will become a better person. When you learn to stay positive and to live up to your mistakes, you will see that the Universe will work for you and you will have a happier life.

You should be honest with others without being offensive

How would you feel if you found out that your loved ones or other people around you were lying to you? If you do not feel comfortable knowing that someone just lied to you, then you should also try to avoid hiding the truth from them. If you want to build healthy relationships with other people and to become a better person you have to always tell the truth and to be honest with them as well.

Additionally, when you decide to be honest and tell them directly what you feel just make sure you do it politely so you do not hurt them.

For example, if someone asks you if you like their new house but you really do not like some decorations, just tell them that the house itself is beautiful, but the style is not to your taste and you can tell them what to do instead.

Listen to other people and give them a suggestion if they need to

Sometimes one of the best things that you could ever do is listen to what people are saying. It is quite difficult to tell someone your thoughts and feelings because they will always start to say their experiences and all the conversation will end up being about them.

So, just be different and listen to their story and give them advice if they really need it. Try to avoid interventions like: “I feel you, but let me tell you what happened to me yesterday…” or “I feel sorry for you, but if I were you, I would do things differently, so let me tell you how…” These sentences only denote the fact that you are a narcissist. 

According to Jeet Banerjee, a well known entrepreneur, “listening to people and giving everyone a voice is one of the greatest things you can do. I got to meet some of the most amazing people, close some of the biggest deals, and develop connections that will last me a lifetime all because I took the time to listen to people. Being a good listener can change your life in a positive manner.”

Try to be helpful

Being there for people who need your help is the most beautiful thing that people can do, whether we are talking about a workmate who really needs your opinion on a project, or helping your wife with cleaning the house. There is a secret that always works: the more you help other people, the better your life will become.

For instance, you can help an old man or woman cross the street or by carrying their groceries, you can also help your children doing their homework or your wife washing the dishes.

Being polite is proof that you have received a good education

Well, there are a lot of people in this world who refuse to be polite and this is so sad… You can make someone smile if you say ‘thank you’ or ‘have a nice day’ when you go to the supermarket or when you interact with people in general. In fact, how much effort does it take to say these magic words? Just two seconds. If you want to become the best version of yourself just try to be different and polite with the people around you.

Do not visit someone empty-handed

If your friends invite you to a party or at their house just to talk and eat something, make sure you do not go there empty-handed because it could be a big mistake.

Even though they tell you to go empty-handed because they have all they need and do not want you to give them any gifts, you should still bring them some things such as a bottle of champagne, cakes, chocolate or flowers. You know that all that matters is your intention and they will appreciate it. 

Spend more time with your family and friends and socialize often

If you want to keep a healthy and happy relationship with your family and friends you have to communicate often with them and spend more time together. 

Why is it important to spend time with your family, especially with your children? According to Dr. Gummer, founder of Fundamentally Children, “spending time with your family is about sharing things together and creating bonds and attachments so that children feel they belong in the family and have routines and traditions. But that doesn’t mean it can’t be sat around a screen watching a film or playing with a Wii or Minecraft. The danger is we demonize tech itself with a broad brush when it is all about the activities.” She also said that “you get to pass on shared values and opinions, and you get to have discussions about what’s going on in life, and children feel more valued, more heard, and they understand their parents more as well.”